The timeless wisdom of “Desiderata” resonates deeply with those of us on the recovery journey, particularly in times of profound change and challenge. Just as I wrote yesterday about transforming fear into freedom and finding serenity amid political uncertainty, Max Ehrmann’s 1927 prose poem offers a gentle reminder that peace and strength can be found even in life’s most turbulent moments.

A close friend first shared this piece with me in 2017, during the darkest period of my life. While incarcerated, I committed the poem to memory, reciting it quietly each morning in my cell. Yet despite knowing the words by heart, I failed to capture their essence—to truly live them—upon my release. It would take another six years before I could fully embrace and genuinely live the ideals contained within. Each day, I still strive to embody these principles, and in times of distress, I find myself returning to these words for guidance.

Like the “Day Zero” mindset I discussed in my post, “Desiderata” speaks to the daily renewal of spirit and purpose. Written by Max Ehrmann, a lawyer and philosopher from Terre Haute, Indiana, this meditation on living gracefully amid life’s complexities mirrors many core recovery principles – acceptance, surrender, and the quiet cultivation of character through conscious choices.

The poem’s opening line, “Go placidly amid the noise and haste,” particularly echoes our recovery journey’s call to maintain emotional sobriety and inner peace, even when the world around us seems chaotic. Just as I’ve found that nearly a decade of recovery has transformed my response to political events from fear to acceptance, “Desiderata” offers timeless guidance for navigating life’s challenges with dignity and grace.

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

— Max Ehrmann, 1927

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Triumph may become trial, and trial may become triumph. Today, as news of another Trump victory ripples through our community and world, I find acceptance coming with surprising ease. What once triggered desperate feelings of fear and anxiety in 2016 has now become an opportunity to lean in and grow.

The Transformation Through Recovery

Nearly a decade into my recovery journey, the profound lessons of acceptance, surrender, and deep introspection have transformed me. Where chaos once lived, serenity now dwells. I’ve come to understand that my greatest contribution to this world lies in three simple things: maintaining an attitude of appreciation and positivity, taking actions that serve others, and developing character that can withstand any trial with integrity, fortitude, and grace.

Understanding Day Zero: A Recovery Perspective

Today is always Day Zero of the rest of our lives – a truth that carries special meaning in recovery. Each morning offers us not just a clean slate, but an invitation to actively build who we choose to become. While our past may include days spent masking trauma and pain with substances and destructive behaviors, our character is not defined by those shadows. Instead, it’s built day by day through sober, purposeful choices and actions. We are who we choose to be now – not who we were when disease drove our decisions.

Moving Forward with Purpose

Let’s find triumph in unity, service, and recovery. May we keep our hearts warm, our minds open, and our hands occupied with work that serves humanity. Each Day Zero is another opportunity to contribute to the foundation of who we’re becoming, one conscious choice at a time.

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Tonight, as Americans await election results, I’m reminded of a profound truth we learn in recovery rooms: our differences dissolve when we focus on what binds us together. Whether in small church basements or community centers (or in the Great Outdoors), people from all walks of life share their stories – stories that, despite their unique details, ring with familiar themes of struggle, hope, and resilience.

The Universal Language of Recovery

Recovery teaches us that no matter our background, we share fundamental desires: to be heard, to be understood, to build better lives for ourselves and our families, and to leave a positive mark on the world. These aren’t Republican or Democratic aspirations – they’re human ones.

Listening Without Judgment

In our recovery meetings, we practice something remarkable: we listen without judgment. We get curious about each other’s journeys. We discover that the person across the room, whose life may look nothing like our own, carries the same hopes and fears we do. This is the wisdom we need tonight and in the days ahead.

Moving Forward Together

As election results unfold, let’s remember what recovery has taught us – that community heals, that isolation divides, and that we’re far stronger together than apart. Let’s choose to listen more than we speak, to seek understanding rather than victory, and to remember that behind every political position stands a person with dreams not so different from our own.

Building on Common Ground

Our shared humanity runs deeper than any ballot box. Tonight, let’s commit to lifting each other up, just as we do in recovery, knowing that our common ground is far greater than our differences.

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Looking at the vibrant mural outside this Vegas Arts District building, I was struck by the joy and hope radiating from that smile. In a time when many of us feel jaded by the noise of politics and the weight of societal challenges, it’s easy to believe our voices don’t matter.

But they do.

Recovery has taught me that while we control very little in life, we can choose how we show up. Voting on November 5th isn’t just about politics – it’s about showing up for our community, for each other, and for the change we wish to see.

Many of us in recovery know what it means to feel voiceless. We’ve experienced what it’s like to believe our choices don’t matter. But we also know the power of small actions building toward meaningful change. Every day we choose recovery is a vote for transformation. Every time we support each other, we vote for community.

This Tuesday, let’s bring that same spirit to the ballot box. Whether you’re feeling hopeful or hesitant, your voice matters. Your experience matters. Your vote matters.

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“What if someone despises me? Let them see to it. But I will see to it that I won’t be found doing or saying anything contemptible. What if someone hates me? Let them see to that. But I will see to it that I’m kind and good-natured to all, and prepared to show even the hater where they went wrong. Not in a critical way, or to show off my patience, but genuinely and usefully.”

-MARCUS AURELIUS, MEDITATIONS, 11.13

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